10 Principles of Self-Esteem

1. Children feel more confident in a setting that is conducive to their feeling cared for and valued.
2. Children’s self-esteem grows when they know you care enough to be with them.
3. A moment’s reflection about the wording of a question can make a significant difference in a child’s self-esteem.
4. Children are enhanced by the network of people, things, and events that make up their lives. When you accept children in their network, you accept them completely.
5. Growth in self-esteem is connected with children’s acceptance of their right to have strong feelings.
6. In a trusting and non-judgmental atmosphere, self-esteem can grow.
7. Success comes from acknowledging the positive in a nonevaluative way.
8. Humor can be a great antidote for low self-esteem, especially when children want to get out of their depressed state quickly.
9. Children’s self-esteem grows when they know that you want to share something you value with them.
10. Self-esteem thrives on success. The bridge you build for the child can provide a successful "crossing."